ARTICLE ENRTY 3 : AT HOME WITH MAMMA

 In the article entitled, ‘At Home with Mamma’, Antonella Cappon states that the kids who leave home at early ages are ones who are missing something in terms of affection, and the problems come from a lack of affection. Moreover, she thinks that there are no people who are psychologically unbalanced because they got too much love or protection at home. I partially agree with Antonella Cappon because children should stay with their family until 20 not 30 ages for some reasons.

Firstly, Antonella Cappon is right because children need to be protected by their families and they need their parent’s love and affection, so they should stay with their families. A lack of parent’s love may affect the children psychologically. Therefore, people may make lots of mistakes and wrong decisions due to a lack of affection for their lives. Moreover, most of the children at early ages may start smoking, using alcohol and drugs. A lack of affection lies at the bottom of murders, suicides and crimes. In my opinion, in order to decrease the rate of suicides, crimes and using drugs, the children should live with their parents and get their love.

On the other hand, I disagree with her because the people in their twenties should learn how to stand on their own legs in my opinion. Both men and women need to learn certain things like cooking, ironing, earning money and solving their problems before they get married. In order to learn them, they should live alone after they get their parent’s affection. Living with family after 20 ages may make the people lazy and incompetent. When they face with a problem, they always trust their mother or father because they know that their family always helps them to solve the problems. Therefore, when they have to solve it alone, they cannot do it. Moreover, when they have a problem with their husband or wife, they do not try to solve it together, on the contrary, they always ask for advice from their parents even in a little family problem. This may cause great problem, further discussion and even divorce. People at their twenties should live without their family at least in order to learn how to solve their own problems alone.

In conclusion, children need their parent’s protection and affection until certain ages and then they should live alone because parent’s affection may not lead the children psychologically unbalanced, but it may cause them lazy and incompetent.