The women in the
video discuss whether children should live with their family or not. At the end
of the video they conclude that parents should help their children to be prepared
for life, and then they should let them go. I disagree with them because life
is not like an exam. People cannot be prepared for the life. They just learn
everything by experiencing them and living. For example, while a baby learns
how to walk, parents can help him/her. However, he or she should fall down over
and over in order to learn it.
One of the women
in the video says that the children in their twenties are not mature enough. I disagree
with her because the adults in their twenties are psychologically healthy and
can make their own decision if they get their parents’ love when they are
children. What makes them immature is their family in my opinion. If parents
let their children make their decision and be free, this provides them to take
responsibilities of their actions. For example, if a mother says to her
children that you cannot do this, so let me do it, this discourages the
children. Moreover, whenever they want to do it, they will need to their mother
because they think they cannot do it even they are mature enough. A baby two
years old wants to eat his meal by himself, and if you let him do it, at first
he cannot do it perfectly, but when he is three years old, he can eat his meal
on his own. However, if his parents do not let him to eat by himself, when even
he is five years old, he wants his mother to help him.
A baby or a
child may always need their parents. However, the children who are their twenties
generally do not need their mother or father. Therefore, so as to help the children
in their twenties, parents let them leave home and live alone in my opinion. When
their children need them, they can ask for help. The best help for children is
to trust them. This will make them self-confident and successful.
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